If you’re thinking about dating a Thai or Filipina woman, chances are you’ve already heard a few “warnings” from friends, family, or the internet. Some people claim these women are only interested in money, others say they’re just trying to get a visa, and some even suggest the entire experience is one big scam.
But are these claims really true—or just outdated stereotypes?
This blog post tackles the three most common rumors surrounding Thai and Philippine women in the world of international dating. We’ll take a closer look at where these ideas come from, what’s exaggerated, and what’s actually worth keeping in mind. More importantly, you’ll learn how to approach dating these women with clarity and confidence, without falling into the trap of generalizations.
Whether you’re serious about finding a life partner or simply curious about the cultural dynamics involved, this guide will help you sort fact from fiction—and date with respect, intention, and awareness in 2025.
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Rumor #1: All Asian Women on Dating Sites Are Prostitutes
This is one of the most damaging and false myths about Asian dating sites. The idea that every woman online is part of some shady network of sex work or controlled by a criminal ring is simply not true.
Yes, sex tourism and exploitation exist in parts of Southeast Asia, and sadly, some scammers do take advantage of dating platforms—but that doesn’t mean every woman you meet online is part of that world. Many Thai and Filipina women genuinely join these sites because they’re interested in meeting a respectful partner, exploring love beyond borders, and starting a real relationship.
Like anyone else, they want to connect with someone who values family, trust, and commitment. Generalizing all women as sex workers not only shows ignorance—it also closes the door to potentially meeting someone truly amazing.
The reality is: plenty of sincere, smart, and marriage-minded women use these platforms with honest intentions. And if you approach online dating with respect and good judgment, you’ll quickly spot the difference between a scam and a real connection.
Rumor #2: All Thai and Philippine want a green card
They seek out Western men looking for decent Asian wives and make these men fall in love with them by being nice to them through online chat. Once the men fall in love with them, they will convince Western men to meet up with them either in the woman’s native country or ask the men to shoulder travel expenses so that these women can go to the United States.
Once these women get to the United States, they are rumored to apply for residency and a green card. After a couple of years, they will leave the Western men they used to enter the US and go after other men; usually from their own countries and start their lives over in the US. Based on these rumors, Thai and Philippine women crave to be in America so much that they will do anything which even includes marrying people they do not care about.
Most Thai and Philippine women want sugar daddies. Thai and Philippine women look for Western men to date online so that when they get married, the American husbands will be the ones to support their wives as well as their whole family. According to the rumors, Western men who marry these Asian women should provide for all the needs of their wives’ family; from school fees down to their allowances.
Rumor #3: Just money wanted
It is rumored that Thai and Philippine women always assume Western men are wealthier. For them, it is actually an achievement to marry Western men because this means their families can become better off financially. Based on the rumors, once you marry these women, you will be viewed as the Santa Claus who gives and gives. As long as you have money, they will treat you nicely. Once you run out of money, they will leave you.
I hope you do not believe this unpleasant rumor that ALL Thai and Philippine brides are gold diggers or that they simply wish to come to the US to financially ruin a man and then ask for a divorce.
If you read and hear all these stories and rumors, you will have an impression that all Asian women are out to get your money or use you. You are likely to become worried that dating Thai and Philippine women is similar to becoming scammed. If you are just an ordinary guy craving the love and attention of Asian women, then these rumors can be disenchanting.
Don’t Fall for Every Rumor: Most Thai & Filipina Women Are Genuine
It’s easy to get discouraged by all the gossip and generalizations floating around about Asian women on dating sites. But here’s the truth: not every story you hear is the full story—and lumping all women into the same category is both unfair and misleading.
Yes, there are scams out there. And yes, a few people have had bad experiences. But that doesn’t mean every Thai or Filipina woman online is looking to trick you. Most of them are just like you—genuinely searching for love, connection, and a lasting partnership.
In fact, Asian women often take relationships and marriage very seriously. They’re raised with strong values around loyalty, family, and commitment. If you treat them with respect and sincerity, you’re likely to find the same in return.
So be smart, stay cautious—but also stay open. Online dating is a modern tool that many women are using to find love beyond borders. And if you’re looking in the right place with the right mindset, there’s a real chance you’ll meet someone amazing.
Last Updated & Reviewed: May 08, 2025
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Hi, I’m Krystyna – dating blogger and coach, specializing in international relationships, romance scams, and cross-cultural connections.
At Asian Dating Journal, my mission is to support Western men on their journey to finding meaningful relationships with Asian and foreign women. Through practical guides and honest insights, I share real-life experiences and proven strategies to help you navigate the world of international dating with confidence and clarity.
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