Are you looking to date or get into a relationship with a Chinese girl?
Well, it’s no secret that Chinese girls are some of the most beautiful in the world, so it makes sense that you might want to date one.
Do you want to know if she’s interested in you? Here are the top 5 signs that a Chinese girl is into you.
Let’s explore them in length.
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The 5 Signs to Know if a Chinese Girl Likes You
Here are the top 5 signs that a Chinese girl is into you:
1. You Can Tell from Her Body Language
The first sign that you can tell from is her body language. This is the primary way to know if a girl is interested in you. Let’s dig deeper into body language.
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Her Eyes:
If she repeatedly looks you in the eye when speaking, this is a good sign because it shows that she feels comfortable around you. You can also tell by how long she looks at you. If she doesn't look away for long periods, then there's a chance that she likes you or at least finds you attractive. If she seems to avoid eye contact all of the time, then she might be just shy. -
Her Posture:
If you notice that her shoulders are away from you and she has a more slumped or closed off posture, this is often a sign that she doesn't like you as much as you thought. However, on the other hand, if her shoulders are turned towards you, and she has an open posture, this is a good sign that she likes you or at least finds you attractive. If she mirrors your body language, then it means that she wants to connect with you on some level. -
Her Voice:
If her voice gets higher and more flirty when speaking with you, it's a good sign that she is into you. Similarly, if she laughs at your jokes or uses small talk to discuss things about yourself, this is also a good sign. This kind of stuff might seem silly, but there are subtle clues in her voice and responses that can let you know how she feels about you. -
If she touches you or looks at your body often, this is a good sign that she's into you.
For example, if she places her hand on your arm as she laughs at one of your jokes, then it's likely that she is interested in you. Similarly, if she looks at your muscles or smiles playfully, these are all positive signs. This is because she wants to get closer to you and feel more connected with you. Touching someone else is known as "proximity seeking". It's simply our human way of trying to connect with one another on some level.
2. Look at Her Behaviour
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She Starts Flirting with You:
This might not seem like much to westerners, but it's a huge sign in China. There is a significant cultural difference in flirting here. If she starts flirting with you or teasing you, there is a very good chance she is interested. Girls usually don't flirt with guys they aren't into because it would be awkward and strange for them both. -
She Sends You Gifts and Letters:
Some Chinese girls like to send gifts to their crushes as a way of flirting. Now, this is done more by older people or middle-aged professionals, but it's still worth mentioning for those trying to find out if she's into you. Also, another sign that she might be into you is if she writes you love letters or expresses her feelings towards you. While this seems a bit odd to westerners, it's still popular among the older generation in China. -
She Tries to Be Alone With You:
Chinese girls are often very shy about showing their affection for guys, so they might try to find subtle ways of being alone with you. For example, some girls might invite you over to their house for dinner or some other event where they can spend more one on one time together. If she tries to get you alone, that is a clear sign that she is interested in you. -
The Way She Acts:
If she makes a lot of eye contact and laughs at your jokes, this is a good sign. This is because people laugh more when they like someone and make more eye contact with them. So, if she seems to be behaving in this way more around you than other people, then it's highly likely that she likes you. -
She Goes on About Soul Mates:
Soul mates are a considerable part of Chinese culture, and many girls here believe that they have one true soul mate. If she talks about soul mates and other love-related topics, then there is a good chance that she might be interested in you. While this doesn't mean that she likes you, it's still worth mentioning as another sign that she might be into you.
3. She Opens Up to You
If she starts to open up to you and talk about her feelings or past, this is a good sign. Chinese girls are often guarded when it comes to guys they like because of the culture here.
They don’t talk about our feelings much, especially with strangers, so it’s a positive sign for you if she opens up.
- Most girls don’t enjoy talking dirty as much as most men do
- Girls are often more talkative than guys
- Girls love gossiping
4. She Starts Asking You Questions
If she asks you what you think of her or about other girls, this is a good sign. For example, if she asks your opinion on a dress she’s wearing, she likely has a crush on you.
This is simply because girls don’t care too much about other girls’ clothes, so asking your opinion on her clothes has nothing to do with you.
- Girls love getting gifts
- If a girl cooks for you, she likes you
- You can get a girl interested in you by knowing her interests
5. She Introduces You to Her Friends and Family
If she introduces you to her friends and family, this could mean one of two things. One possibility is that she’s just trying to show you off as a trophy boyfriend because Chinese girls often do this with their crushes.
However, if her gestures seem genuine, then it’s possible that she likes you. If she introduces you to her friends or family, this is a good sign because she trusts you enough to show you these very important people in her life.
- Girls love to feel special and wanted
- Too much seriousness can disinterest a girl
- Girls know how to control their emotions
Final Thoughts
If you notice that she is doing any or all of these things, she likely likes you. While these signs don’t mean for sure that she likes you, they are subtle signs that can suggest it.
You might be thinking by now that she indeed likes you. However, we have to warn you that there’s no surefire way to tell if a Chinese girl likes you. Some girls are really shy and would never make a move even if they liked you.
Also, some girls like to play hard to get and are trying to chase after guys even if they have no interest in them.
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